“ I am not teaching you the positive was of living, I am not teaching you the negative way of living: I am teaching you the way of transcendenc. All dualities have to be dropped. All dualities have to be dropped:the dualiy of mind and heat, the duality of motion , the duality of the positive and the negative, the duality of matter and mind, the duality of thinking and emotion, the duality of the positive and the negative, the duality of male and female, yin and yang, the duality of the day and night, summer and winter, life and death…all dualities.Duality as such has to be dropped, becasue you are beyond duality.
The moment you start moving away from both yes and no, you will have your first glimpses of the ultimate. Hence the ultimate remains absolutely inexpressible; you cannot say no, you cannot say yes.”
The Dhammapada: The Way of the Buddha, Vol 5, Chapter #2